I have been on quite the writing sabbatical this summer; as in, I haven't written a thing! I'm just now getting back into a routine - teaching reading full time to kindergartners through the adult level and I'm back in marathon training. I guess I've really needed the writing break though. Lately I've had some great ideas of things I
should write about, but when I sit down to actually do it...all desire escapes me. I have been keeping a running list of future paper/research ideas though.
In the past few months I've been watching a lot of nighttime shows on
WEtv. I've noted that so many of the documentary-style shows focus on either "deviant" women or "unruly" women - criminal, or otherwise. Tonight I've seen a couple shows that focus on female criminals -
Women Behind Bars and
Chain Gang Girls. Then there's also the
Secret Lives of Women. Tonight it focused on a dominatrix, a woman whose husband was gay, a bi woman in an open marriage, and a pill-popping prescription drug addict soccer mom. The episode after that was about how "size matters". It focused on a little person, a 6'5" woman, and two
BBW (Big Beautiful Women).
The latter episode was rather frustrating to watch. Juxtaposing the struggles of a very tall supermodel (literally, she was a supermodel whose dimensions were 6'5", 36" x 29" x 34") with the struggles of a little person (who is only 3'1") really doesn't seem right. While I can accept that both women struggled with self esteem issues growing up, as adults, their struggles hardly seem comparable. The tall
supermodel's problems included not being able to find shoes, pants, or boyfriends who were as tall as she was. Inconveniences, no doubt, but she was a very beautiful, fit, thin, sexy, woman who made a living on her looks. Additionally, she's a supermodel who can afford to have her clothes custom made. She also mentioned that she didn't "get" her first boyfriend until she was 17. She noted that this was unusual and late in life.
Whereas the little person's struggles revolved around the way the world treated her, how simple things like cooking could be challenging, as well as a few struggles with her love life. There was no mention of how difficult it must be for her to shop for clothes, and really that's no surprise given the fact that her struggles (and the confidence she has found as she has overcome those struggles) are much greater than finding a cute pair of shoes. Finally there were the 2
BBWs (weighing around 300 lbs. each) who were self-made women who helped other large women discover their own beauty and confidence. The women started online groups, opened up a fashion boutique and a dance club.
While I appreciate the inclusion on the taller woman's struggles, I just can't get behind the
show's decision to compare a perfectly thin and beautiful supermodel to a little person and two very large women. Not being able to find shoes is hardly the same thing as being 3' tall or 300 lbs. While her story might be worth telling, I don't think it
should've been placed in the same episode as these other stories. Additionally I'm sure they could've chosen another tall woman who is not a supermodel.

Lastly, the actual title of my post comes from something I saw that would be quite humorous were it not so absurd.
Chain Gang Girls is a
docu-style series about America's only female chain gang prison. The show is interesting on many levels, but what initially struck me was the color PINK! The women are in black and white striped prison garb wearing pink underwear, pink sports bras, pink undershirts, pink socks, and sleeping on pink sheets. Who in the world thought that female chain gang prisoners would appreciate having everything turned pink? I don't see blue blankets, undershirts, or boxers in male prisons. This is a female-only prison nonetheless, why the gender distinction? How unnecessary!
Mary Kearney recently gave a talk at
Console-ing Passions about "Pink Technology" - media production technology that is pink for girls (such as video cameras and guitars). Having heard her presentation I've become hyper-aware of pink (I noted it before, but even more so now). I was recently at the Toys R Us in Times Square and was appalled by all the gendered pink toys for girls! For example (one of hundreds!), these ought to look familiar to most people:

But guess what? They're now available like this as well:

I have no problem introducing new color options, but why only all pink? Why not different shades of green, or red, or blue as well? There was nothing inherently masculine about the rings that have been around for decades, nor is there anything particularly gendered about this toy that would need to be "tweaked" to attract girls to it. Not to mention the fact that the rings lose some educational value when you can only teach your daughter different shades of pink. Instead of learning orange, green, yellow, and blue, what's she going to learn? Dark pink, light pink, lighter pink? When did this basic assumption that girls will only like a toy if it is pink start? It's like Mary said at her panel, it's not that the pink option is insulting in and of itself, but it becomes problematic when that is the
only option girls are afforded. It continues to position girls as Other, somehow a deviation from the norm of Male. The world of toys, games, media is intended for boys and in order to get girls interested and involved we have to feminize the toy.
It really amazes me that the pink assumption/obsession has now gone so far as to infiltrate the prison system. I wonder to what extent the pink is an attempt to (re)feminize these women, in so much as criminality is often perceived as masculine (interestingly most of these ladies' crimes are "feminine" - shoplifting and prostitution, with some drugs as well). Have no fear, when our little pink princesses grow up and find themselves in trouble, they will not have to sacrifice their pretty in pink panties in prison!